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Why I want to become a leadership and parenting coach?

Why I want to…

Now this is an interesting question. I always had an inclination to teach since my school and college days. In fact I was doing bachelor of education course before…

The Magic You Are Hoping To See Is In The Work That You Are Avoiding

The Magic You Are…

The other day I came across this lovely and very thought provoking statement somewhere on the social media, attributed to an anonymous person. It actually felt as if I…

VISIONARY LEADERSHIP

VISIONARY LEADERSHIP

The most prominent Indian examples of Visionary Leadership to my mind are two. One concerns the 1971 War. It is well documented that the Prime Minister Mrs. Indira Gandhi…

UNSELFISHNESS

UNSELFISHNESS

The Army is very hierarchical organisation wherein the chain of command is the main link for executing the Army orders, policies and SOPs...

TACT

TACT

Tact serves as the social lubricant, allowing smooth navigation through tricky situations. It involves delivering messages with diplomacy and sensitivity, ensuring ...

STRATEGIC FORESIGHT

STRATEGIC FORESIGHT

These is a very though not very well known story about the Indo – Pak War of 1971. The West Pakistan Army has some a lot of atrocities bordering…

LOYALTY

LOYALTY

Loyalty is a word often thrown around in conversations about leadership, but what does it truly mean? It's not about blind obedience to superiors or unwavering support for the…

KNOWLEDGE

KNOWLEDGE

When I rejoined my unit after completing the Young Officers Course, I fell into Unit routine in a peace station effortlessly. PT in the morning, followed by training/offic...

JUSTICE

JUSTICE

Land mines are very dangerous things and do not distinguish between friend and foe. You trip them or step on them, they don't spare you. So in case of…

JUDGEMENT

JUDGEMENT

This is a quality which is the most important aspect of leadership and comes with an agile mind, sincerity of purpose and thorough knowledge of your ...

INTEGRITY

INTEGRITY

Armed forces thrive upon integrity of its leaders and men down the line. This is mainly because it is about valour, honour and safety of your motherland — all…

INITIATIVE

INITIATIVE

On this topic of initiative a very elaborate exercise I had to undertake bring up the leadership quotient of my team comes to my mind’s forefront. This occurred in…

ENDURANCE

ENDURANCE

I can never forget the long nearly 100 km march our whole brigade undertook in 1991 from an area in West Bengal to South Sikkim. We were picked up…

EMPOWERMENT

EMPOWERMENT

When I shifted from Para Commando to regular infantry I was young with less than three years of service. Yet immediately I was put in charge of a Rifle…

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

After about five years of commissioned services I was selected by Military Secretary’s Branch at Army HQ for being part of the leadership team of a New Raising battalion.…

DEPENDABILITY

DEPENDABILITY

After about five years of commissioned services I was selected by Military Secretary’s Branch at Army HQ for being part of the leadership team of a New Raising battalion.…

DECISIVENESS

DECISIVENESS

Boardroom battles, surviving market crashes and operating in any military operation requires alertness of a highest order, mental flexibility and decisiveness to seize the best opportunity in a fluid…

COURAGE

COURAGE

During our 18 months training in Indian Military Academy the main contribution to the excellent bearing we, erstwhile from civive streets, acquired was mainly from the Drill Square. The…

BEARING

BEARING

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Agility of Mind

Agility of Mind

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

A Call to Action for Self Improvement

A Call to Action…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Unleash the Power Within: How Enthusiasm Makes You a Magnetic Leader

Unleash the Power Within:…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

The Power of Sincerity: How to Lead from Where You Are

The Power of Sincerity:…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Decaying Urban Space – Public Apathy at its Worst

Decaying Urban Space –…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Three Rustic Rules Which Shaped My Life (Are they relevant today?)

Three Rustic Rules Which…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Father’s Love Is Tough

Father’s Love Is Tough

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF (AND PLANNED FOR) AS TO HOW WILL YOU LIKE TO BE REMEMBERED AFTER YOU ARE GONE

HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Why Do We Do What We Do…?

Why Do We Do…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

A Call for Emotional Restraint and Legal Trust in Troubled Times

A Call for Emotional…

I normally do not comment on political events out of habit being in Uniform for more than half of my life till now. But I feel like

Nuclear Family Effect on Child Development

Nuclear Family Effect on…

An Old Wine in the New Bottle Aug 17, 2023 An Old Wine in the New Bottle What we are at present — at any stage of life and…

An Old Wine in the New Bottle

An Old Wine in…

An Old Wine in the New Bottle Aug 17, 2023 An Old Wine in the New Bottle What we are at present — at any stage of life and…

Dawn of Real Independence

Dawn of Real Independence

Dawn of Real Independence Aug 15, 2023 Dawn of Real Independence As I write this piece it is already 15 Aug 2023 and another Independence Day has arrived. The…

Building empowering relationships and strong bonds for lifetime

Building empowering relationships and…

Building empowering relationships and strong bonds for lifetime Aug 9, 2023 Building empowering relationships and strong bonds for lifetime WHY DO WE have rupture in otherwise long surviving relationships?…

Are you an Asset to the Team?

Are you an Asset…

Are you an Asset to the Team? Dec 18, 2019 Are you an Asset to the Team? Let’s see the very first aspect of a good worker that is…

Leadership Traits

Leadership Traits

Leadership Traits Nov 30, 2019 Leadership Traits This is much Spoken and written about subject. The 14 leadership traits are well known and well accepted. Here I will attempt…

How To Balance Your Relationship And Your Career

How To Balance Your…

How To Balance Your Relationship And Your Career June 5, 2022 How To Balance Your Relationship And Your Career Balancing a relationship and a career can be challenging, but…

Harms Of Helicopter Parenting

Harms Of Helicopter Parenting

Harms Of Helicopter Parenting June 10 Harms Of Helicopter Parenting “Children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work.”— C.S. Lewis Helicopter parenting,…

What is the career of student at NDA?

What is the career…

What is the career of student at NDA? Jun 2, 2023 What is the career of student at NDA? Students at the National Defence Academy (NDA) in India undergo…